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Harry says that they promised themselves that if they cut their hair, they could finally cosplay the character that meant so much to them. Harry had been struggling with their gender identity, especially in an unsupportive work environment, but the idea of being able to cosplay as Krem eventually won out. "That one hair appointment was the start of my most fulfilling project to date."
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His journey of feeling unsure of who he is, wondering if he is broken, seeing and experiencing things differently from everyone else around him — this resonated with me profoundly," they explain. "And like him, I’ve come to understand how I feel and who I am, and have found people who will accept and support me, even if not everyone does." What I didn’t expect was everything else that would happen to me — and is still happening to me — thanks to this one little week in my otherwise pleasantly uneventful life.In conclusion, everything is precisely as it should be. And seriously, Millennials, don’t be embarrassed of your search terms. For what it’s worth, all porn search terms are mortifying. If your porn search history were ever exposed, it would be at least as bad as your Google search history. What does a non-embarrassing porn search history even look like? Like this, maybe:
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